Today is the 25th anniversary of Charles and Diana's wedding. Brits were all decked out to celebrate the new royal family, and people from around the world tuned in to watch. It was the wedding of our time.
We now know the reality of what happened between the fabled couple. Disatisfaction at home, extra-marital affairs and family feuding took its toll on England's fairy-tale couple. Even the would-be king and queen were not immune to the strains on marriage.
Scripture shows us that marriage takes commitment. The man is encouraged to be selfless in taking care of his wife and the woman to submit graciously to his leadership. Scripture acknowledges the tough times in marriage, situations that test the limits of each partner's patience. Infidelity, disagreements, religious disputes, and flat-out deceit are approached with heartened conviction to stay the course.
Charles and Di, like every couple, faced hard times. They both fell into temptation and selfishly followed their own pursuits. Eventually they lost the greater vision of their matrimony. But there is hope.
Marriages are not doomed. My parents have been through their ups and downs. They have disagreements and disappointments. But their difference is the committed love they have for each other. When they said "I do," they meant it for life. They have come through disappointment together.
One day I may be married. It will require commitment and consideration for my spouse. Grace and mercy will trump judgment and frustration. These are the lessons learned on this interesting anniversary.
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